In The Sanctuary Of Outcasts_ A Memoir Part 11

Intimate, prolonged contact, it seemed, made everything commonplace. Beauty and and disfigurement disappeared with familiarity. Beauty queens became ordinary; leprosy patients did, too. disfigurement disappeared with familiarity. Beauty queens became ordinary; leprosy patients did, too.

I had spent my life surrounding myself with beautiful people. And I made certain no one ever recognized my shortcomings. A childhood accident left two oblong scars in the center of my forehead. Just after my first birthday, while my babysitter talked on the phone, I tumbled down five concrete steps at Avent Acres apartments in Oxford (where my family was living while my father attended law school at Ole Miss). The injuries weren't the kind of cuts that st.i.tches could repair; the rough edge of the concrete sc.r.a.ped the skin off my forehead. My mother called it concrete burn. A physician covered the injuries with gauze and sent us home, but a week later, he pulled off the gauze and with it came the two scabs. Two oblong scars now dominated my forehead.

Until I was almost ten years old, I was oblivious to the peculiar marks on my forehead. But when I finally did recognize their oddity, I went to extraordinary lengths to hide them. I kept my bangs long enough to cover my forehead, and I constantly pressed my hair down to ensure the scars were hidden. I lowered my head on windy days so no one would get a glimpse if a strong gust came along. During swim team practice, I was careful to emerge from underwater perfectly perpendicular so my hair would never be swept back to reveal my flaw. During school pictures, photographers would come at me with a comb or brush, but I would press my hands over my bangs and tell them I liked my hair this way.

At home, locked inside my bathroom, I would push my hair back and stare at the unsightly scars. Keeping my forehead constantly covered was inconvenient, but the alternative was unthinkable. Others might find the blemishes abnormal. Maybe even repulsive. In front of the mirror, I resolved I would never let anyone see my damaged skin.

In the summer of 1980, after I made good grades my freshman year at Ole Miss, my father arranged to have the scars repaired by a plastic surgeon. During the preliminary exam, the doctor pinched and prodded the scar tissue and a.s.sured me that when he was finished the hairline scars left behind would blend in perfectly with the wrinkles that formed in my forehead when I raised my eyebrows. The procedure took less than thirty minutes. I was awake the entire time. When he finished cutting out the oval scar tissue and pulled the skin together with the final sutures, he gently pressed a piece of gauze over the incisions.

"That isn't going to stick to the scab, is it?"

He held up a tube of ointment and instructed me to apply it to the scars twice a day.

For the first time in years, I felt free of the humiliation of being different, and I felt light because I had left my ugliness behind.

But this imprisonment and the label "ex-con" would follow me for life.

I had no idea how people would treat me, or if they would embrace me, living with my flaws exposed. I'd never given anyone the chance.

I didn't tell Ella that her physical defects were disappearing for me, but I did tell her about how much time and energy I had put into maintaining my image, how much money I had spent making an impression, how many people I had hurt, and how much stress had come with creating an illusion.

"I wanted everyone to think I was perfect," I said, as if I'd had some great insight.

"Well," Ella said, "you ain't gotta worry about that no more."

She was right. My conviction had been splashed across the front pages of newspapers. It had been the top story of the evening news. The scandal rocked my hometown. The behaviors I had developed to hide business setbacks, cash shortfalls, and any hint of failure were exposed on April 9, 1992. A Thursday.

The Coast Magazine Coast Magazine offices were unusually quiet. And empty. All twenty-nine employees were attending an advertising sales symposium. Helen Berman, a sales expert from Was.h.i.+ngton state, had flown in to lead a motivational seminar for my staff. offices were unusually quiet. And empty. All twenty-nine employees were attending an advertising sales symposium. Helen Berman, a sales expert from Was.h.i.+ngton state, had flown in to lead a motivational seminar for my staff.

I received a phone call from Albert Dane, my loan officer at Hanc.o.c.k Bank. Albert had helped our company grow from the very beginning. He had arranged for equipment leases, short-term loans, and credit card processing. He was a friend and supporter of our business.

"You need to come down to the bank," Albert said. I looked at the clock. The bank had just opened for the morning. I asked if there were some problem. "You just need to come down here," he repeated.

I packed my briefcase and checked the notes I'd made the day before at the bottom of my planner-a $419,000 check written on the Hanc.o.c.k Bank account; $345,000 drawn on Peoples Bank. I hoped some glitch had come to the bank's attention that could easily be resolved. But I knew better. Albert wouldn't call if the news weren't awful.

I looked out of my window at the panorama of the coast. I stood for a moment. The beach and gulf were bright and clear in the morning light.

On my walk to Hanc.o.c.k Bank, I pa.s.sed the offices where my father and his grandfather had practiced law. Two blocks down was where I had visited my grandfather in the purchasing office of Mississippi Power. Five generations of my family had lived and worked in Gulfport as attorneys, teachers, surveyors, and entrepreneurs. This was my town, and I had hoped to be its greatest champion. My magazine depicted the region without its blemishes or flaws, like a magic mirror that reflected away any imperfections.

I walked slowly. I wanted to remember how Gulfport felt, and how the town felt about me. I had made many friends. I had made them look good in my magazines. Of course, it had ultimately been about making me look good. If Albert had discovered the kiting, I wondered if I would have time to get investors to cover the loss, like I did in Oxford.

I stepped onto an escalator that led to the second-floor mezzanine, the main bank floor. As the mechanical stairs lifted me upward I saw Albert waiting for me at the top. He directed me to the conference room where I'd been many times before for meetings about loans, equipment leases, and acquisitions.

I sat at one end of the large oval conference table. Albert sat at the other, as if he wanted to be as far away from me as possible. A woman I had never seen sat to his left. He looked down at the table as he told me that the FDIC had been at the bank doing an audit. He stammered about some procedures the bank went through before the auditors arrived. Then he looked up. "It's come to our attention that you've been kiting checks."

I felt the blood rush into my face. I felt hot all over. But I acted as if I didn't know what that meant.

"Best we can determine," he said, "the checks total somewhere around a million dollars."

I wanted to correct him, but I thought it better to be perceived as stupid than criminal. I looked down at the table. I was ashamed.

Albert read me the bank's policy. They would not accept any deposits that were not in cash. They would notify the FBI. They would notify the other banks on the coast. They would not entertain any loans. They would begin foreclosure on any liens on my a.s.sets. Then, he added that my uncle Knox, the bank's primary attorney, had been made aware of my actions.

As we left the conference room, I told Albert I was sure I could cover the overdraft.

Looking at the floor and turning away from me, he said, "I hope you're right."

As I rode the escalator down to street level, I considered what I could do. And for the first time in years, I didn't know. I was certain of only one thing. That nothing, ever again, would be the same.

CHAPTER 37.

On a crisp fall day, bundled in a heavy jacket, I waited in line behind four other inmates for the pay phone. Linda and the kids had returned to New Orleans from their trip to Oxford and I was anxious to hear about it. Linda accepted the collect call and spoke longingly of the simple life a small town afforded. She had so many old friends in Oxford. And her family was there.

"I'm moving back," she said.

"What?"

"I'm moving to Oxford."

I understood her impulse. She would be near friends, in a safe town, out of the French Quarter, away from my mother. Her family could help with Neil and Maggie.

I worried that a twelve-hour round-trip would keep Linda and our kids from visiting me. A move to Oxford didn't make sense-the kids' school tuition in New Orleans had been paid; Linda was living rent-free. Another move would be disruptive for Neil and Maggie. Not to mention the obstacles I would face starting over in a town where I had left such a mess.

"I can't move back there," I told Linda.

She didn't answer.

"Why Oxford?" I asked. "What about some other small town?"

There was a long silence. Then Linda said, in a firm voice, "I'm filing for divorce."

CHAPTER 38.

For all that I had done wrong, one part of my life had been uncomplicated and good: my life with my children. On any given morning, I would rouse from sleep before Linda. On some days, so would Neil and Maggie. To see them peek around the doorway wearing their footie pajamas was a treasure. Their hair matted from sleep, breath still sweet. I would put them on my lap to ask what I could fix for breakfast-cereal or oatmeal or their favorite, strawberry Toaster Strudel.

In our evening routine, Linda and I took turns bathing Neil and Maggie. On my nights, I used too much bubble bath, splashed too much water on the floor, and sometimes forgot to wash behind their ears; but to hold them close after a bath, to smell the scent of shampoo and powder was an escape from the frantic world I had built for myself.

On weekend mornings, when I didn't rush to the office, I got down on all fours and pretended to be a horse. When my knees or back wouldn't take it anymore, we would make a pallet in front of the television-a stack of quilts and blankets so thick it felt like a pillow-and watch their favorite Sat.u.r.day morning shows. During commercials, I would balance them atop my feet so they could fly like Superman, or place them horizontally across my chest and use them like weights on a bench press, or I might stand and grab their hands while they walked up my legs and torso, then flip them backward to complete a "skin the cat." Maggie called it "cat scan."

In nice weather, we would go to Second Street Park to swing and slide and spin on the merry-go-round. For a special treat, we would drive to Fun Time USA, an old-time amus.e.m.e.nt park with rides renovated from the 1960s.

At bedtime, I would read them Corduroy Corduroy, the tale of a magical shopping trip, The Cat in the Hat The Cat in the Hat, Goodnight Moon, Goodnight Moon, or or Where the Wild Things Are Where the Wild Things Are. When sleep escaped them, I would read the books over and over. Other times, lying in a tiny twin bed with my child, exhausted from my day at work, I would fall asleep midsentence, still holding the book above my face. Maggie or Neil would yell, "Daddy!" to wake me. And I would read on.

On nights when reading did not put them to sleep, I sat in the rocking chair that belonged to Linda's family. I would hold them on my shoulder, rub their backs, and hum "Amazing Grace" or "Rocka-Bye, Baby" until sleep consumed us both. When Maggie was an infant, nursing from Linda's breast and sleeping in our bed, I would put her on my stomach and rest my hands at her side. Her tiny head on my chest, our breathing synchronized, the warmth from my body like a heated blanket, Maggie would fall into a deep sleep.

Linda's words-I am filing for divorce-stopped me cold. For the first time, I faced an unthinkable loss. My children. I looked for an abandoned hallway. A corner in the library. An empty television room. But inmates were everywhere. I couldn't catch my breath. Air didn't go deep enough. My hands trembled. I felt nauseated. I needed to cry. But I couldn't let anyone see me. Not a guard or an inmate or a leprosy patient.

I sat on a bench in the corner of the inmate courtyard. Slumped over, I could feel my heart pound. That's where Link saw me.

"Look at Clark Kent all sad and s.h.i.+t!" Link yelled, hoping to get the attention of some of his friends. "You step in some kryptonite?!"

I was dizzy. I wanted him to go away. "My wife is leaving me," I said, hoping he would take the hint.

"G.o.dd.a.m.n!" Link said, laughing, like he thought this was funny. "You been lying like a motherf.u.c.ker, you lost two million dollars, and your a.s.s is in jail-what the f.u.c.k you think she gonna do!?"

That night, I fought away the tears. I didn't want Doc to see me break down. I lay awake, the light from the hallway s.h.i.+ning directly on my face. I didn't cover my eyes with my forearm, like most nights. The fluorescent light kept me up until almost 2:00 A.M A.M. Then the nightmare came.

I walked across a swinging rope bridge. Maggie walked in front of me; Neil behind. In the dream, I warned them both to hold tight to the guide rope. Suddenly, a wooden slat broke under Maggie. She fell through and grabbed onto a piece of dangling thread. I screamed and dropped onto my stomach. I crawled toward her when I heard the boards break underneath Little Neil. I turned to see his arms wrapped around a creaking wooden slat. Little Neil and Maggie screamed for me to help. I stretched out my arm toward Maggie, but I couldn't reach her. She looked me directly in the eye. "Help me, Daddy," she cried. I moved my body as far off the planks as I could without falling. As I reached out for her hand, everything went dark. I was completely blind. I waved my arm wildly, trying to find Maggie's hands. I yelled for Neil to hold on. Then, in the dark, I heard the sounds of their screams falling far, far away.

I sat up in bed and yelled.

"Jesus Christ!" Doc said, sitting up. "What the f.u.c.k is going on?"

I put my hands over my mouth.

"Go back to sleep," Doc said.

I was afraid to go back to sleep. Finally, 4:00 A.M A.M. came, and I went to work in the cafeteria. Chase and Lonnie didn't report to work until breakfast time. Link, Jefferson, and other early-s.h.i.+ft inmates settled into a deep sleep inside the cooler. I went to the empty patient dining room. Ella wouldn't arrive until 5:00 A.M A.M.

At first the tears came slowly. Soon all that I had held inside gave way. I cried until I choked, until watery, clear mucus ran down to my chin. I cried until the tears wouldn't come anymore, until I gasped for air and spasmed with each dry heave. I cried until I was exhausted and listless.

I used the leprosy cafeteria restroom, off-limits to inmates, to wash my face. My cheeks were covered with red splotches, like my skin was allergic to my own tears. My eyes were puffy and bloodshot. In the mirror, I stared at a face I didn't recognize. The face of a man who had lost everything.

When I returned to the cafeteria, Ella was pouring a cup of coffee. I didn't want her to see me like this, so I hurried over to the menu board, my back to her.

As I wrote the day's menu, I heard the clanks of the chains turning on her wheelchair. "Hey, boy," she said. I waved over my shoulder and went back to the board.

"You all right?"

I turned around, and Ella saw my face.

"Sit yourself down," Ella said, touching the table.

I slid down into a chair next to her and told her about Linda leaving me. I told her I would never again live in the same house with my children. I stretched my arms on the top of the table and put my head down. Ella turned her wheelchair to the side and reached for my hand. Her palm felt cool and smooth. Her skin smelled like flowers. For nearly seventy years, Ella had suffered, and seen, heartbreak beyond anything I could imagine. She had been torn from her family and imprisoned as a child, but she offered me comfort without judgment or comparison. Ella sat with me, her hand on mine, in silent vigil.

CHAPTER 39.

I went to my room, crawled into bed, and pulled the covers over my head. I told the guards I was sick. I avoided everyone. I slept through meals and woke periodically in the night, disoriented, forgetting for a moment why I couldn't breathe. I lost track of time. When I couldn't sleep anymore, I sat up in bed. My frantic attempts to think of a solution to keep my children quickly gave way to crus.h.i.+ng anxiety. For the first time, I faced losing the one thing I could not bear to lose. And no amount of charm or logic or persuasion or money would buy me out of it.

I lay awake, staring at the ceiling, and remembered a day in May 1992, three weeks after the banks had frozen my accounts. We were living in a three-story, four-thousand-square-foot house with an empty refrigerator. And I was out of cash.

My family, and Linda's, had already spent thousands investing in my business and retaining lawyers. I could not ask anyone for more. I saw the panic on Linda's face.

The next day, when I went to Hanc.o.c.k Bank, I kept my head down, hoping no one would notice me. I checked the contents of our safe deposit box. An old Garcia & Vega cigar box held the silver coins my grandfather had given me on each of my birthdays, as well as about a dozen U.S. savings bonds held together by a rubber band. Two bonds had been gifts to me during my childhood; the others belonged to Neil and Maggie. On the envelopes were handwritten notes: From Grandpa Burrell on Your Birth From Grandpa Burrell on Your Birth; From Granddaddy Ron From Granddaddy Ron; Happy Birthday, Love, Pappy Happy Birthday, Love, Pappy.

The denominations ranged from $25 to $50, and although the bonds were made out to my children, I was also listed. As guardian. The person who watches over and cares for their a.s.sets, who protects them from mismanagement.

I put the bonds in my back pocket and returned the box to its place in the vault. At the teller window, I endorsed the back of each one. The woman behind the window recognized me. She kept her eyes down. I slid the bonds toward her. "I'll be right back," she said, not looking me in the eyes. She gathered them together and disappeared.

I wanted to explain to Neil and Maggie what I was doing, but I didn't know how to ask for their permission without shaking their sense of security. How could I tell them we were out of money? Out of food? How would I ever tell them I might go to prison?

The teller counted out $240 and change. I was ashamed to use their money. And I had expected more.

"Cashed before maturity," she said. Her eyes said, You should be ashamed of yourself You should be ashamed of yourself. She had no idea.

With my children's money, I went to Delchamps. The smell of sour milk in the dairy section made me nauseated. I looked for the least expensive items. The ones that would stretch the farthest. Pasta, peanut b.u.t.ter, crackers. For the first time in a decade I paid attention to price and was careful not to overspend. I bought special treats for Neil and Maggie. Fruit Roll-Ups, Little Debbie Zebra Cakes, ice cream sandwiches.

At home, I put the groceries on the counter. Linda saw the junk food I'd bought for the kids and looked at me like I was an idiot. I shook my head and turned away.

Neil and Maggie were on the living room floor in their pajamas. I sat down in the leather armchair and held out two Fruit Roll-Ups. They jumped onto my lap and put their arms around my neck. Their hair was still wet from their baths, and I could smell the baby shampoo. They nestled into my arms. They were happy. Their father had brought them candy. They felt safe and loved and secure. Secure because they knew I would never do anything to hurt them.

The Catholic church at Carville.

CHAPTER 40.